The wind in my heart. That refreshing breeze that sweeps away the anguish, hurt and confusion. And like the eye of the hurricane, you find yourself in a calm place amid the whirling world your mind can be.
Sure, I might be pulled into the swirl of hurricane winds but for now I enjoy the calm and, I suppose, the stability.
The days of struggle. They’ve come to an end, which in hindsight, after the maelstrom, is the natural turn of events in the life of one who has bipolar.
I don’t say this with much confidence though. However, I do take solace in today. I think that I’m making progress in accepting each day as it. Moreover, I want to really take charge of bipolar disorder, to hold the reins and steer my own direction.
I recently read an interview with Lama Yeshe on Buddhism and mental illness. He said, “There’s no way you can understand your own mental problems without your becoming your own psychologist. It’s impossible.” I believe he is right. We each have this responsibility.”
Even in the darkest moments or the soaring highs, I think we have this ability. We may not know it. We may need help to find it. We may need time to understand it and put it in use. But I think it’s there, We can act as our own psychologist or psychiatrist, and take power over our disease.
In writing this, I am not in any way dismissing or undermining the value and need of a good psychiatrist and proper medication. The vital importance of support. Knowing that when we are overwhelmed we can reach out and someone will be there.
I’m saying that we can take charge and still work in concert with medical expertise for support.
After the struggling and frightening period I went through, I wasn’t able to do this. I have not grasped he concept fully nor do I yet have the tools. I want to develop and learn though.
Today is a good day. I’m thankful for these moments.
I’m also thankfully, incredibly so, that when I believed I had nowhere to turn, I found the help I was searching for. Not permanent but what I needed to get through.
Where I live, Ottawa, the capital of Canada, there is an excellent support. A high-quality hospital only dealing with mental illness populated by fine and dedicated doctors, nurses, social workers to name a few. Having had stays in this hospital, the level of care and knowledge is astounding.
Also, two or three crisis lines are available 24 hours a day. In the lonely and desperate hours of the morning, when all I wanted was more darkness, I somehow thought of these. Perhaps I paid attention to numbers lying on the table within my reach.
More importantly, I called.
In the past, I had hesitated or even avoided these services. My bias? Not wanting to admit to needing crucial help? Yes to both.
What I found on the other end of the line – non-judgmental support and understanding. Advice and hope. A tender ear, reassuring voice.
The crisis line worker eventually decided to send help to my home despite the hour. A fellow came and simply sat with me a while. He convinced me that he should call for medical help. I spent two days in hospital. It was the right place for me to be.
The final outcome? Saviour? Realizing I wasn’t alone in the bleakness? Help just a call away?
All of these.
I’m grateful.
Hope and love to all
Terry